i don't understand people. they get so stressed and upset about things that shouldn't bother them that much. why?? why don't they realize that it's not as big a deal as they're making it. it's not healthy for people to do that, but so many do. is there something wrong with me? do i not see the big picture or little picture or the same picture? we're having sort of a situation at our house, but there's not much i can do about it so i just ignore it. he dwells on it. we went to a movie last night to get away and it's still all he talked about afterwards. but he won't confront the individual. i don't get it! maybe i've just lived in enough situations where me and the other people i live with hate eachother that i can just ignore them. maybe he hasn't. what i don't get is how he bitches and complains to me all the time, but won't confront the situation. shit or get off the pot, man. it's not worth it.